Strong bonds with people and other animals are essential for your dog. Sometimes these bonds must be untied, such as when two animals that have lived together for years must be sent to live in separate homes. Separating dogs that have spent their lives together is difficult; it takes patience and perseverance.
Separate the dogs gradually. Take the dogs on short walks or short trips apart from each other if their daily walks have always been in tandem. Start with short periods of time, around five minutes, then extend the time by five or 10 minutes each day. Gradually increasing the time spent apart shows each dog that separation is OK and that they still have their loving human. Distract the dogs while they are apart. Use toys, treats, trips to a fun place and other exciting things to take your dogs' minds off missing each other. Lots of cuddles and one-on-one time with the humans in their house will go a long way to help them adjust to being without their dog partner.
Place the dogs in separate households once they are used to the notion of spending time apart. If neither dog seemed fazed by your outings without the other, the parting might be less traumatic than it could be. Either dog might express confusion or anxiety while seeking the presence of the other, but within a few days of adjustment, many bonded dogs apparently move forward without issues. Others struggle with the loss for the rest of their lives. A dog that's well cared for and provided plenty of mental stimulation will cope better than a bored or poorly nourished one. With a loving human to care for them, separated bonded dogs can adapt to life without their canine pack mate.
Arrange play dates for your dogs after they are separated. They will be happy to see each other, and this can help reduce the separation anxiety they may feel after being permanently separated. If either of the dog appears to be adjusting poorly, consult your vet and discuss options.
- Remember that these dogs have spent their entire lives together, and this will be a huge adjustment for them. When they are separated, they experience feelings of fear, abandonment, anxiety and depression. As a result, they need extra attention and love from their human caretakers to cope.
- Do not get frustrated with your dogs. Being separated from their packmate is stressful enough, and your frustration will make the process more difficult for all of you.
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